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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by Heidi » 04 Nov 2018, 16:07

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Pa to vi njemu upravo radite.

Čista projekcija.
Dobro. Evo prepustam binu.
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Post by Julia-Klara » 04 Nov 2018, 16:10

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:sok :lupa
Sta ti ovdje nije jasno?
Jesi li se ikad iznenada zaljubila u prijatelja?
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by statebriga » 04 Nov 2018, 16:13

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statebriga wrote:
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:sok :lupa
Sta ti ovdje nije jasno?
Jesi li se ikad iznenada zaljubila u prijatelja?
brzo zaljubila, i jos brze odljubila, vrlo kratko, jer uvijek kontam, nije jeidni na svijetu kojeg cu sresti ,a da je imao dio moje paznje :p
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by Socrates » 04 Nov 2018, 16:16

Bina je svačija i ničija.

Takav forum.

Digla se frka jer je mute rekao da samo provocira. Joj, kakva nevjerojatna novost za ovo mjesto.

A mogu sasvim sigurno da kažem da je to rekao da isprovocira.

Ja uopste nemam utisak da samo provocira.

Dijete se traži. To je njegov način.

A mi sto sve znamo, sta mi uopste trazimo ovdje osim svakodnevne egzibicije?

Ah, kako smo svi sveznajući i živote smo baš sredili kako treba pa nam još samo i jedino fali da i na forumu to objavimo kako smo krasni, nepobjedivi, sve znamo, i savršeno smo dobro uklopljeni.

This is the final step do apsolutne perfekcije naših života.

Za razliku od Mute, koji je eto balavac i pojma nema i završiće k'o Vasa Ladacki.

Čija ljubav nije bila neuzvraćena.
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Post by ina » 04 Nov 2018, 16:17

Samo ko voli bez nade, zna sta je prava ljubav. :lupa
Cini mi se da je to (ili nesto slicno) rekao P. Neruda
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the exquisite pain of wanting someone that you know you can never have, and knowing that you will still try to be with them.
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Post by Julia-Klara » 04 Nov 2018, 16:18

JEL DOSTA VISE?
OPOMENA SVIMA PRED BAN. DRZITE SE TEME

@Storm, molim te, brisi sav off
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Post by statebriga » 04 Nov 2018, 16:19

The Top 10 Relationship Words that Aren't Translatable into English

Here are my top ten words, compiled from online collections, to describe love, desire and relationships that have no real English translation, but that capture subtle realities that even we English speakers have felt once or twice. As I came across these words I'd have the occasional epiphany: "Oh yeah! That's what I was feeling..."



Mamihlapinatapei (Yagan, an indigenous language of Tierra del Fuego): The wordless yet meaningful look shared by two people who desire to initiate something, but are both reluctant to start.

Oh yes, this is an exquisite word, compressing a thrilling and scary relationship moment. It's that delicious, cusp-y moment of imminent seduction. Neither of you has mustered the courage to make a move, yet. Hands haven't been placed on knees; you've not kissed. But you've both conveyed enough to know that it will happen soon... very soon.

Yuanfen (Chinese): A relationship by fate or destiny. This is a complex concept. It draws on principles of predetermination in Chinese culture, which dictate relationships, encounters and affinities, mostly among lovers and friends.

From what I glean, in common usage yuanfen means the "binding force" that links two people together in any relationship.

But interestingly, "fate" isn't the same thing as "destiny." Even if lovers are fated to find each other they may not end up together. The proverb, "have fate without destiny," describes couples who meet, but who don't stay together, for whatever reason. It's interesting, to distinguish in love between the fated and the destined. Romantic comedies, of course, confound the two.

Cafuné (Brazilian Portuguese): The act of tenderly running your fingers through someone's hair.



Retrouvailles (French): The happiness of meeting again after a long time.

This is such a basic concept, and so familiar to the growing ranks of commuter relationships, or to a relationship of lovers, who see each other only periodically for intense bursts of pleasure. I'm surprised we don't have any equivalent word for this subset of relationship bliss. It's a handy one for modern life.

Ilunga (Bantu): A person who is willing to forgive abuse the first time; tolerate it the second time, but never a third time.

Apparently, in 2004, this word won the award as the world's most difficult to translate. Although at first, I thought it did have a clear phrase equivalent in English: It's the "three strikes and you're out" policy. But ilunga conveys a subtler concept, because the feelings are different with each "strike." The word elegantly conveys the progression toward intolerance, and the different shades of emotion that we feel at each stop along the way.

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Ilunga captures what I've described as the shade of gray complexity in marriages—Not abusive marriages, but marriages that involve infidelity, for example. We've got tolerance, within reason, and we've got gradations of tolerance, and for different reasons. And then, we have our limit. The English language to describe this state of limits and tolerance flattens out the complexity into black and white, or binary code. You put up with it, or you don't. You "stick it out," or not.

Ilunga restores the gray scale, where many of us at least occasionally find ourselves in relationships, trying to love imperfect people who've failed us and whom we ourselves have failed.



La Douleur Exquise (French): The heart-wrenching pain of wanting someone you can't have.

When I came across this word I thought of "unrequited" love. It's not quite the same, though. "Unrequited love" describes a relationship state, but not a state of mind. Unrequited love encompasses the lover who isn't reciprocating, as well as the lover who desires. La douleur exquise gets at the emotional heartache, specifically, of being the one whose love is unreciprocated.



Koi No Yokan (Japanese): The sense upon first meeting a person that the two of you are going to fall into love.

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This is different than "love at first sight," since it implies that you might have a sense of imminent love, somewhere down the road, without yet feeling it. The term captures the intimation of inevitable love in the future, rather than the instant attraction implied by love at first sight.



Ya'aburnee (Arabic): "You bury me." It's a declaration of one's hope that they'll die before another person, because of how difficult it would be to live without them.

The online dictionary that lists this word calls it "morbid and beautiful." It's the "How Could I Live Without You?" slickly insincere cliché of dating, polished into a more earnest, poetic term.



Forelsket: (Norwegian): The euphoria you experience when you're first falling in love.

This is a wonderful term for that blissful state, when all your senses are acute for the beloved, the pins and needles thrill of the novelty. There's a phrase in English for this, but it's clunky. It's "New Relationship Energy," or NRE.



Saudade (Portuguese): The feeling of longing for someone that you love and is lost. Another linguist describes it as a "vague and constant desire for something that does not and probably cannot exist."


It's interesting that saudade accommodates in one word the haunting desire for a lost love, or for an imaginary, impossible, never-to-be-experienced love. Whether the object has been lost or will never exist, it feels the same to the seeker, and leaves her in the same place: She has a desire with no future. Saudade doesn't distinguish between a ghost, and a fantasy. Nor do our broken hearts, much of the time.
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by statebriga » 04 Nov 2018, 16:25

ina wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:17
Samo ko voli bez nade, zna sta je prava ljubav. :lupa
Cini mi se da je to (ili nesto slicno) rekao P. Neruda
ina, ne mogu ovo pronaci :hm

evo nesto od njega :

Moja ljubav ima dva života da bi te voljela.
Zato te volim kada te ne volim
i zato te volim kada te volim.

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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by Vrag » 04 Nov 2018, 16:45

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zasto :hm

Meni je ovo nekako bezveze. Ne mozes birati u koga ces se zaljubiti i voliti, a odljubit se tesko ide.

Valjda, a mozda i ja samo serem :ćitire
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Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:45
statebriga wrote:
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zasto :hm

Meni je ovo nekako bezveze. Ne mozes birati u koga ces se zaljubiti i voliti, a odljubit se tesko ide.

Valjda, a mozda i ja samo serem :ćitire
naravno, da ne biramo , ali se bome odljubiti jeste moguce ako skontas da to nije to , ili osobe imaju previse strpljenja i nade da se nesto promjeni :hm

koliko puta se desilo da osobe tako vole, i kasnije se mozda desilo , da se ista neuzvracena ljubav , javila, odgovorila, uzvratila , i osoba koje je bila prvo toliko zaljubljena se odjednom razocara i ohladi , znaci, osobe u neuzvracenoj ljubavi vole svoju idjeu ljubavi sa osobom , a ne iskljucvo osobu :hm
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Post by Vrag » 04 Nov 2018, 16:51

Nisam napisao da je nemoguce
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Vrag wrote:
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Nisam napisao da je nemoguce
ali si napiao da tesko ide :hm sto sad, trebaju ti godina dvije da se odljubis :rumenko
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

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statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:53
Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:51
Nisam napisao da je nemoguce
ali si napiao da tesko ide :hm sto sad, trebaju ti godina dvije da se odljubis :rumenko
Ne znam, valjda, mozda zavisi od toga koliko se jako zaljubim. Godina, dvije ne predstavlja nemoguce.
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Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:55
statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:53
Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:51
Nisam napisao da je nemoguce
ali si napiao da tesko ide :hm sto sad, trebaju ti godina dvije da se odljubis :rumenko
Ne znam, valjda, mozda zavisi od toga koliko se jako zaljubim. Godina, dvije ne predstavlja nemoguce.
pa zato i jeste problem, sto moze trajati predugo :hm nema tu selameta :123
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by statebriga » 04 Nov 2018, 17:31

storm wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 15:29
statebriga wrote:
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da se vratimo na temu :djed
Zasto si nismo nikad uzvratili ljubav?

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moram te ponovo kvotirati, ovo me podsjetilo na blokirane ljubavi , a blokirane ljubavi nisu neuzvracene one-sided ljubavi :cvijece

blokirane ljubavi bi bile jos bolja, zanimljivija tema :ok
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by Vrag » 04 Nov 2018, 17:34

statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 17:25
Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:55
statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:53
Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:51
Nisam napisao da je nemoguce
ali si napiao da tesko ide :hm sto sad, trebaju ti godina dvije da se odljubis :rumenko
Ne znam, valjda, mozda zavisi od toga koliko se jako zaljubim. Godina, dvije ne predstavlja nemoguce.
pa zato i jeste problem, sto moze trajati predugo :hm nema tu selameta :123
Pa nista, pucati sebi u glavu :123
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by statebriga » 04 Nov 2018, 17:50

Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 17:34
statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 17:25
Vrag wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:55
statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:53


ali si napiao da tesko ide :hm sto sad, trebaju ti godina dvije da se odljubis :rumenko
Ne znam, valjda, mozda zavisi od toga koliko se jako zaljubim. Godina, dvije ne predstavlja nemoguce.
pa zato i jeste problem, sto moze trajati predugo :hm nema tu selameta :123
Pa nista, pucati sebi u glavu :123
takoe :djed

zato postoe prijatleji koji pomognu osobama u takvoj situaciji da ih jednostavno izvuku iz tako nezrave faze :123
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by ina » 05 Nov 2018, 10:48

statebriga wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:25
ina wrote:
04 Nov 2018, 16:17
Samo ko voli bez nade, zna sta je prava ljubav. :lupa
Cini mi se da je to (ili nesto slicno) rekao P. Neruda
ina, ne mogu ovo pronaci :hm

evo nesto od njega :

Moja ljubav ima dva života da bi te voljela.
Zato te volim kada te ne volim
i zato te volim kada te volim.

:srce :srce
Nisam mozda adekvatno prevela.
To tvoje zvuci ljepse. :rozi
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Re: NE-uzvracena LJubav

Post by Sheval » 06 Nov 2018, 18:22

Ne znam :ooo

Salu na stranu, iz svega vidjenog do sada, sto se tice ove neuzvraćene ljubavi, muskarci su njezniji spol :pivo
Nakon sto naidju na takav zid, na odbijanje, muskarci se nerijetko istog trena pretvaraju u tuzne narikace, smarajuci sve oko sebe u radijusu od 10.000km. I tako, slusajuci tuzne pjesme, sa velikom dozom samosazaljenja, nerijetko i bijesa, proklinju zlu sudbinu.
Zene su tu puno suptilnije, odmjerenije i uglavnom to rade u intimi, tiho bez da svima moraju to pokazati. Sto ne znaci da manje pate, naprotiv.
Treba biti dostojanstven i castan...kako u pobjedi, tako i u porazu. Zivot ide dalje.
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Никад се довољно нисам могао нагледати те свјетлости, иако сам је сретао свуда.
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