on samo traži "odmor"
Postoje muškarci koji žele avanturu čak i kada imaju dobar odnos s partnericom. Između partnera postoji velika ljubav, a imati aferu s nekom drugom ženom doživljavaju kao vrijeme za opuštanje i avanturu.
mislim da je ovo najcesci izgovor
malo o stavu razlcitih drustava:
However the vast majority of affairs in continental countries are what I call playfairs — short but sweet diversions from day-to-day realities and obligations. They do not lead to a change of spouse. Indeed the French have developed the affair into an art form, with conventions on romantic dinners, elegant lunches, gifts, weekend trips to exotic and glamorous places like Venice or Istanbul. As one Frenchman noted, offering an exciting weekend away in an attractive destination always secured a seduction.
In contrast, women in Puritan Anglo-Saxon cultures are more likely to regard such an invitation as sexual harassment rather than a compliment – especially if it comes from their boss. Frenchwomen point out that you can always say no, politely and regretfully, to avoid hurting a man’s ego. So where is the victim? Frenchwomen positively welcome compliments on their appearance (as do men), whereas women in Britain and America may treat such personal compliments as inappropriate, even aggressive.






